Look... It's a spade! *THUNK*


Mind games.

The only kind of "game" that I really suck at! I don't/can't do all of that crap. I've just never seen the point, honestly.

I know that it's managed to become part and parcel of today's living. Especially in that little failed social experiment we all know (and I hate) as flirting. I hate it because I suck at it. Simple. I really just don't understand it.
What's the point of making acute (not cute) signals that I might or might not understand?
I'm talking to a member of the opposite sex that I have never met before... What are my intentions?

I think I've finally realised what my problem is in that regard. I'm too damn honest!
If there's a spade laying on the floor, I will tell you that there's a spade on the floor. I really don't have the energy to use in trying to throw some sugar on the spade and calling it a shovel.

When I meet someone, I really don't want to have to make myself more attractive to them.

This is me. You have met me. Do you like me? If answer = yes, cool. If answer = no, cool. I'm really not phased.

Honesty is one of those virtues that have been lost on mankind for many a year. What's so difficult about it? A lot of people lie to get ahead. Others lie because they have to. Whatever happened to just telling people the truth about anything? And if you think it might offend them, tell them as much. Don't just go around telling everybody their business. It's rude.

But. Why is that when it comes to dating or anything related to the said subject, no one seems to be able to tell the whole truth? I say "whole truth"
because equivocation has become a big part in the dating world as of late.

She asks, "So, what do you do for a living?"
He answers, "Oh, I'm just a Customer Relations Assistant at a well known local establishment."
HE'S A FUCKING BARMAN! HE WANTS TO GET LAID! Don't be too surprised when he's not in the same bed he slept in, mainly the female
who was interested in the big words he used to describe he's imaginary important position's bed. But that's another rant for another day. I really don't have the energy to get into that right now. It drains me just thinking about it.

Sometimes I wish life was like the 1700's where dating didn't exist. Where people met and fell in love. Where life was a little slower and the lives we led were even slower.

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